Playing it Safe
When it comes to coaching, careers, and life in general – what is the effect of "playing it safe"?
Playing it safe means not taking chances or risks. It means not making changes. It means not taking a true leadership role in your life or career. It means standing still. And it means never knowing ‘what could have been’ or reaching one’s true happiness.
Most people of great success didn’t get there by playing it safe. Can you truly find happiness by playing it safe or do you only find stale contentment?
It’s imporatant to encourage ourselves, our clients, our family and our friends to be courageous and make changes, take control and move forward.
We should ask:
- What would make me happy?
- What steps would it take to get there?
- What will happen if I don’t take those steps? Or, what WON’T happen if I don’t take those steps?
- If I just play it safe, where will I be in 6 months, 1 year, 3 years? The same place I am now?
I think it’s important to include those keywords "if I just play it safe" when we’re encouraging one, or ourselves, to go for happiness. There seems to be something motivating about that phrase.
Playing it safe doesn’t build one’s self-esteem. It doesn’t allow a person to realize their true capabilities or to really put their "drive" in high gear. It’s a place of complacency, of cruise-control. Living on cruise-control gives you no chance to really experience your travel.
If you roll down the windows and enjoy the wind, crank up the radio, feel the bumps and potholes, and control everything about your journey you can really appreciate and navigate your path. Taking the wheel puts your destination in your control rather than just arriving wherever it takes you.
Even though we can’t control everything that happens in life, we can ultimately control our happiness by asking ourselves "now that this has happened, what is it that will make me happy?", and daring ourselves to not play it safe so that we can navigate our way to to the place we want to be.
What are your views when it comes to "playing it safe" and happiness? Is there a particular approach you use? Do you have any stories or successes about how not playing it safe gave way to happiness or how playing it safe gave way to just settling?
Karen J. for Professional-Coaches.com
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